Taking an Emotional Inventory

Before you can fulfill your goals through spells, you need to take an inventory of your love life. The following questions apply whether you are single or committed and should give you a fairly clear idea about the patterns that run throughout your intimate relationships. Once you identify your patterns, it is easier to change them.

1. Describe your ideal intimate relationship.
2. Describe the worst intimate relationship you ever had.
3. How would you rate your present sex life?
4. If you are involved, is your significant other romantic?
5. Are you romantic?
6. If you are involved, is your relationship emotionally satisfying?
7. What, if anything, would you change about this relationship?
8. If you are not involved, jot down five important things you are seeking in an intimate relationship.
9. Describe the most satisfying relationship you have now. It does not have to be romantic; it can be with anyone- a child, a parent, a friend or even a pet.
10. Do your love relationships have a spiritual component?
11. List five things you would like to change about yourself, then five things you love about yourself.
12. List five things you admire about the person you love most. List five things that make you feel good.

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